Culton-Fuller Family:
The Early Years
But the happiness was short-lived… although the transplant was a success, the doctors quickly realized the kidney had polio on it.
“They didn’t check out the kidney before putting it in my dad,” says Brian. “So now my dad had a kidney, but had polio, he couldn’t walk. It was crazy. So they had to do blood transfusions for a week straight. And there was a very, very low chance of survival. Polio basically killed the kidney, but the doctors had to kill the polio, so then my dad was back to square one again with no kidney, but he refused to go back on dialysis.”
“I would try to be with my dad…but it was during the intense COVID time too, so you couldn’t even go see him. They wouldn’t let anybody in the room. So I just woke up in constant fear thinking, is this my last day with my father? And I mean, that was huge, all happening as I was starting with USHA and trying to set a record. My dad wanted me to keep going, to not stop and not worry about him and make a life for myself. He’s still here with me today, but I believe it’s because of all the success that I’ve created for myself, and that’s the driving factor, which kept him alive the whole time – watching me do what I do. So that was big.”
Inspiration and healing, all coming together. And now the family is looking at getting together.
“It’s been almost two years since that episode,” says Brian, “and my dad’s still not on dialysis. He still has the same situation with the kidneys, but he’s pretty healthy. His blood work is getting better. His kidney’s getting better. And we’re planning on trying to get him moved down here to Florida, hopefully, this year, or if not, early next year, to get him down here by us. But yeah, he’s doing very well now.”
Part of the dichotomy of life is that while one area might be a struggle for you, you can still excel in the other, if you simply focus on the task at hand. While Brian’s dad was trying to overcome his health challenges, Brian remained focused on the work in front of him, trying to build a career at USHA. And just like anything else you do for the first time, it wasn’t easy. You have to practice to make permanence.
“Man, at first it was rough,” says Brian. “The first three weeks, it was just…wow. And I started with Chad Douglas, another top producer, and we kept going back and forth and he had all the experience. And I think in the first week he set four appointments. I had none. I was just stuck in my head. The biggest problem was called reluctance. I would call and right before someone would pick up, I would hang up because I was afraid that they were going to know more than me, and I kept making excuses of, “Oh, the leads suck,” or “this sucks,” or everything, whatever. And it got to about three weeks into it and one night I came home and I was super irritated. I was over it. I was like, “I’m done with this. I don’t know why. I can’t do this cause I’ve been good at everything else in life so far. Why can’t I figure this one thing out?”